Feeding patterns in the early months

In the early months, babies feed very frequently - 8 to 14 times or more in 24 hours. To start with, they might be satisfied or fall asleep after only one breast, then wake soon for the other. Over time they'll usually start taking both breasts at each feed. 

Young babies have tiny tummies and breastmilk is digested quickly so they're soon ready for another feed. Responding to your baby's feeding cues, even if it feels like they've just fed, helps keep your baby satisfied and supports your milk supply. 

Frequent feeds can be helpful for you as a mum too. Satisfying your baby’s hunger may keep them calmer so you’ll spend less time soothing them. Your breasts will also be more comfortable. 

Many babies have periods of cluster feeding especially in the late afternoon and evening. This can look like repeated short feeds close together and is perfectly okay.

If your baby has a long stretch of sleep overnight, they may feed more often during the day to catch up.

Feed lengths vary. Some babies take a while, others finish more quickly. There’s no need to time feeds. Like adults who have big meals, snacks or drinks at different times, babies may want a quick feed sometimes and a longer one other times. They don’t have to take a ‘full’ feed every time. As you follow your baby’s lead, you’ll learn when they’re full or want more sucking time.  

In the early days, a new baby may only remove a small amount of milk with each suck. As they grow and become more efficient, feeds often get shorter.  

Feeding can vary from day to day and over time.

• Babies may have fussy periods and want to feed more. Some prefer fewer, larger feeds; others take more frequent, smaller feeds.
• As babies get older, they may feed less overall.
• In hot weather shorter, more frequent feeds help babies get extra fluids.
• If your baby is unwell, in pain or upset, they may feed more, or sometimes less. 

No matter how many feeds your baby has in a 24-hour period, the important thing is knowing they're getting enough milk. 

Many parents like the idea of a routine to help plan their day. However, strict schedules usually don’t work well for most young babies. They can make you feel stressed and might mean missing your baby’s signs that they need a feed or comfort.

Over time, many families find a flexible rhythm that suits the, without set times.

It’s okay not to have a routine in the early months. Focus on your baby’s cues and your family’s needs and patterns will evolve naturally.

Feeding patterns can change as babies get older. They usually become more efficient at the breast and may feed less often, while still enjoying breastfeeding for comfort and connection.

Comfort and connection 

Breastfeeding isn't just food. Babies seek comfort, reassurance and connection with their mum. Cuddling your crying baby, feeding when they want, and breastfeeding to sleep can help many families feel calmer and more settled.

© Australian Breastfeeding Association October 2025